so what do you do when someone who you love and someone who says you are their rock pushes you away and says they need to deal with their personal issues alone for a few weeks?
i don't want to really get into too much of specifics, but basically i have a friend who i care about very much who is going through a very rough time...on a couple different fronts...
for the past few weeks i have tried very hard to be there to support her, but she is just CONSTANTLY, complaining, flipping out, on edge, one minute everything is all good, one minute the world is crashing down.
we've all been there...we've all gone through our ups and downs, but i don't think i've ever had someone close to me push me away this much....
ive decided to just let her be and give her the space that she has asked for ( even though my gut says space now is just the pre-curosor to the end of our friendship)
i can honestly say i've never tried so hard to be there for someone , and def never tried so hard and STILL got pushed away.
has anyone ever been in this position before? what did you do?
i almost feel guilty walking away because i know she doesn't really have anyone else she can go to...but on the other hand she told me to give her space so i guess i shouldn't